For surviving spouses and the couples who love them

Nobody tells you
what to do
when your spouse dies.

Not the hospital. Not the funeral home. Not your family. You are handed a death certificate and left to figure out the rest alone. AfterLoss changes that. A calm, guided home base that walks surviving spouses through every step of the hardest year of their life. And helps couples set everything up together before anything happens so the person left behind already has everything they need.

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1.5M

Americans lose a spouse every year. Most have no idea what to do first.

12+

Institutions the average surviving spouse must contact after a death. Now imagine tracking down every single one while planning a funeral, telling your kids their parent is gone, and not sleeping. Most Americans spend months trying to resolve them all. AfterLoss cancels what it can, drafts every letter and email with your death certificate attached, and walks you through the rest step by step. You are never doing any of it alone.

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To set up Apple Legacy Contact and unlock your iPhone for your family after you are gone. Most people never do it. AfterLoss walks you through it step by step.

What Social Security survivor benefits cost to claim. Most surviving spouses do not call for months. AfterLoss tells you on day one with the exact number to call.

Why AfterLoss exists

I did not know her passwords. I did not know her subscriptions. I did not know my kids doctors.

When my wife died suddenly, I had no access to her phone, her email, or any of her accounts. I spent thousands in attorney fees, got judge orders, and spent months on the phone with customer service just to cancel subscriptions and find my kids doctors.

A year later I still do not have everything.

I built AfterLoss because no one should go through that. Not the person who just lost their spouse. And not the person who will one day be left behind by theirs.

— Founder, AfterLoss. Widower and father.

What nobody prepares you for

These are not edge cases. They happen to almost everyone.

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Your spouse's phone is permanently locked

Without Apple Legacy Contact or Google account access, every photo, contact, email, and account behind that phone is gone. Forever. This takes 2 minutes to prevent.

AfterLoss walks you through the setup step by step.

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Subscriptions keep charging for months

The average American pays over $200 per month in recurring subscriptions. Gym memberships, streaming services, insurance premiums, SaaS tools. They keep charging until someone cancels them. Most surviving spouses spend months trying to resolve them all.

AfterLoss finds them all and writes the cancellation letters.

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One parent managed everything for the kids

Doctors, schools, medications, therapy, activities, pickup authorization. One parent silently managed all of it. When they are gone, the other parent does not even know what questions to ask.

AfterLoss stores every detail before anything happens.

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Social Security benefits go unclaimed for months

Surviving spouses can receive up to 100% of what their spouse received in Social Security benefits, starting as early as age 60. Most people find out months later from a friend, not a professional.

AfterLoss tells you on day one, with the exact number to call.

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Probate can cost thousands and take months

Without the right documents in the right place, estate settlement requires attorneys, judge orders, and months of phone calls. Most of this is entirely preventable with 20 minutes of preparation.

AfterLoss stores your will, trust, and all legal documents securely.

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Grief fog makes every decision feel impossible

Grief impairs executive function. A surviving spouse cannot remember, cannot decide, cannot prioritize. They need someone to tell them exactly what to do today. Not a list of 50 things. Just today.

AfterLoss shows only what cannot wait. Everything else waits.

Built from experience

"When my wife died suddenly, I had no access to her phone, her email, or any of her accounts. I spent thousands in attorney fees, got judge orders, and spent months on the phone with customer service just to cancel subscriptions and find my kids doctors. A year later I still do not have everything. I built AfterLoss because no one should go through that."

— Founder, AfterLoss. Widower and father.

A guide for every stage

AfterLoss walks you through the entire first year — and helps you prepare before anything happens.

Set up your vault together

Sit down with your spouse. Takes about 20 minutes. Subscriptions, accounts, legal documents, kids doctors, digital legacy access, and final wishes. When the time comes, it is already done. The person left behind opens the app and everything is there.

First 72 hours

A calm, prioritized task list for the most overwhelming days. Only what cannot wait today is shown first. Call this number. Do this now. Everything else waits until you are ready.

First 30 days

Every deadline tracked. Every cancellation letter written for you. Every benefit you qualify for surfaced with exact phone numbers and step by step instructions. Social Security. VA benefits. COBRA. The 2025 Social Security Fairness Act most people missed.

First year and beyond

Tax status, beneficiary updates, estate plan review, grief milestones. AfterLoss stays with you. Gentle reminders at the hard moments. Resources when you need them. A community of people who have been through it.

Everything in one place

Built for couples who want to be prepared. Built for the person who just lost everything.

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One shared vault

Both spouses access the same vault. When one is gone, the other already has everything. No attorney fees. No judge orders. No months on the phone.

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Digital legacy setup

AfterLoss walks you through Apple Legacy Contact, Google account access, and password sharing. Step by step. Under 30 minutes. Your phone stays unlocked for your family.

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Letters written and sent for you

AfterLoss writes the cancellation letters, claim requests, and notifications. Death certificate attached. You tap send. Nothing more.

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Every benefit you qualify for

Social Security survivor benefits. VA DIC. COBRA. The widow's tax penalty. The 2025 Social Security Fairness Act. All surfaced at the right moment with exact steps and phone numbers.

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The kids information. All of it.

Doctors, schools, medications, patient portals, upcoming appointments, activities, coaches, emergency contacts. Stored together. Available instantly.

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A community that understands

Resources curated and upvoted by other widows and widowers. Things that actually helped. Books, products, services, and people recommended by people who have been exactly where you are.

Nobody tells youwhat to dowhen your spouse dies.